Life After Quitting – A Few Quick Updates

I know it’s been a few weeks since I’ve given any updates, but I’m working on a big post about quitting my job (which I did 2 weeks ago). Look for it soon.

In the meantime, I’ve also been writing weekly for Hat Toss, a site with money, career, and health tips for college students and grads. Here are a few of my recent posts up there. I’d love it if you’d stop by and Like or Tweet the posts:

Your First Paycheck! What to Do Before Spending It - Just as it sounds, this post has advice for what to do when you get your first big paycheck from your first job after college. As you can guess, I don’t propose spending it all on gadgets :)

5 Ways to Travel on a Budget – As you know, I try to travel as much as I can (even though I don’t have a ton of money to do it). Here’s some of my best tips for traveling, especially for recent graduates that might be faced with the tough decision of traveling and going into credit card debt to do it.

That’s it for now. Thanks for stopping by!

Hitting a Financial Knowledge Peak (and What Really Matters)

I’ve spent the past 2 years+ absorbing all the personal finance knowledge that I possibly can. Books, blogs, webinars, conferences, and more – I’ve read a ton on a wide range of topics. I don’t know everything, but I still feel like I’ve hit a knowledge peak.

Hitting a knowledge peak

In some ways, I’d like to give up my pursuit for consuming more and more financial knowledge. I feel like I’ve definitely hit the point where the return I get for time spent has neared its peak. I don’t know everything, but I do think I know more than I need to live my daily life (and I DEFINITELY know more than the average person).

Can knowing more really help me right here and now? I don’t think so, or not by much at least. It’s more going to come down to how I use the knowledge that I have through the trying time of launching my own business.

Like a lot of things, having the knowledge itself dones’t guarantee anything. It’s how you use that knowledge, coupled with internal and external factors that determines what happens.

Much of what’s really essential to financial success is emotion. It’s how you handle situations in life, like risk, fear, failure, and success.

Emotions

What’s else is wrong with the financial knowledge peak? Despite my wealth of knowledge, I don’t think it will help me most to succeed financially. Not at this stage at least.

When quitting a job or making a career change, it’s ultimately how you act and react in that situation that determines the outcome. Sure, knowledge comes into play, but it can only take you so far. Even with all the knowledge one can possibly have, fear of failure can still snap you like a twig.

I haven’t quit my job yet, but I’ve already experienced just about every emotion over the last several months. Most of them are tied to the uncertainty of my future or working on side-businesses that take a lot of work besides my full-time job. I’ve had times when I was certain that I would succeed, but there’s also been moments where I’ve felt like crap because I’m a failure.

I know it’s going to take even more strength to keep myself on the entrepreneurial path. I’m reminded all the time by others how easy it is to go back to working a steady job with a good paycheck. I’ve seen and heard stories from many people around me that have done that (and they’re often unhappy with their jobs once they go back).

I don’t think it’s always a bad choice to go back to working for these people, but it’s the easy way out in a lot of ways.

Emotion = Living

As much as it sucks to go from the highest highs to the lowest lows, it’s what makes us the most alive. I’ve been in that situation where I just feel numb. No excitement for tomorrow, but not necessarily any resentment for today, either. It just is what it is. It’s easy, but it’s boring.

Creating situations that generate emotion is what defines life and gives it meaning, and I’m all for making those things happen no matter how uncomfortable.

What do you think? Have you hit a knowledge peak?

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photo credit: quinn.anya

A Few Links – Roundup

Hey All,

Juts wanted to roundup my carnival inclusions from the past few weeks:
Totally Money Blog Carnival at My Personal Finance Journey
Best of Money Carnival at Financial Success For Young Adults
Carnival of Financial Planning at Thriftability
Carnival of Financial Camaraderie at My University Money
Carnival of Money Pros at My Journey to Millions
Yakezie Carnival at Faithful With A Few
Carnival of Retirement at Broke Professionals

Totally Money Blog Carnival at My Personal Finance Journey
Best of Money Carnival at Financial Success For Young Adults
Carnival of Financial Planning at Thriftability
Carnival of Financial Camaraderie at My University Money
Carnival of Money Pros at My Journey to Millions
Yakezie Carnival at Faithful With A Few
Carnival of Retirement at Broke Professionals
Carnival of Financial Planning at Cult of Money
Festival of Frugality at See Debt Run
Carnival of Financial Camaraderie at Young and Thrifty
Totally Money Blog Carnival at Balance Junkie
Yakezie Carnival at One Cent At A Time
Carnival of MoneyPros at Financial Success for Young Adults
Carnival of Retirement at Simple Finance Blog

Spruced Up: Zero Degrees Edition

I’m sitting here writing this week’s Spruced Up post, and it is cold outside! The windchill is around 0!

Luckily, I’m warm inside, so here are some of my favorites from the week:

Lots of blogs covered the Suze Orman debit card saga this week, but Eric at Dollar Versity did a great job covering it on his Facebook page and wrote a great post on Suze and her handling of criticism.

The Happy Homeowner continued her “confessions” series with a moving story about being homeless. I’m definitely looking forward to reading more!

Jana at Daily Money Shot told us how repo men from Lizard Lick towing can teach us about finances, too.

101 Centavos featured a post about how to not invest in water. With my engineering background, water is something that I’ll always find interesting.

JT at Money Mamba made be think with his post about when assets are liabilities. Once I read it, it made much more sense to me.

Jackie at Money Crush questioned if passive income is all it’s cracked up to be. There’s a lot of buzz about it lately, and I’m not sure it’s worth all of the attention it gets.

Corey explained why people can’t get out of debt on Life and My Finances, and used some real-life examples to back up his case.

Andrea at So Over Debt started a discussion on whether altruism is a bad thing or not. I don’t see how you can make a real case that it is bad, but check out the conversation.

PK at DQYDJ asked how we define savings. Hard to believe, but there are many different definitions.

Cryal from BITFS was featured in a reader story on Get Rich Slowly. It’s been great hearing about her success, and I hope I can go on to follow in her footsteps in my own way.

Have a great week!

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Questions to Ask When Buying a House

buy-a-houseThe following is a guest post.

There are many different questions to ask when you’re looking at buying . You might ask “Where will I buy?” or “How much will it cost?” or even  “How much can I borrow?” These are all great questions and factors that you sort out before you decide it’s time to buy. Let’s take a closer look at these and other questions that are related to buying a house.

1) How’s the housing market? There are lots of different trends going on with housing across the country right now. Prices continue to fall in certain areas while house values have stabilized elsewhere. If prices continue to stay low in a place that you’d like to live, consider buying soon

2) How much you can afford? Take a look at a mortgage payments calculator that will help you figure out how much the the monthly payments will be on a house that you’re interested in.

3) Will you be living there a long time? There are many different types of mortgage products out there, and some of them depend on how long you’re planning to live in the same place. If you’re not planning to stay in your house more than a few years, make sure that’s part of the financing process when you take out a mortgage. Either way, getting a home loan should consider how much you’re paying over the life of the entire loan and not just what monthly payments and interest rates you’re paying.

4) Will I need to make improvements? Many per-owned homes come with at least some problems that need attention if you decide to buy. Other times there many be certain elements that just aren’t to your liking and you’ll want to renovate things to personalize your space. Don’t forget to factor these costs into your home buying figures when you’re deciding on your offer to purchases a house.

5) Is this house a good deal? Often times prospective home buyers fall in love with a house before they even know the price they will have to pay for it. This can cause problems as they may be acting on emotion and attachment rather than getting the best financial deal they can. Make sure that the price you’re offering is reasonable and won’t leave you with regrets later. Make your offer below the asking price with this in mind. If you can’t get down to a price that you’re okay with, be prepared to walk away. Don’t forget, there are always other options out there that may be just as good.

These are still only a small amount of the questions you should be asking yourself before buying a home.

What other questions would you ask?

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Spruced Up: Leftovers Edition

Hey y’all. I’m putting together this edition of Spruced Up after chowing down on some great food this week. Here are some of my favorites!

Blogs!

Frugal Confessions – Are We United in Buying Things, or Are We United in Thanks on Thanksgiving Day?

Budgeting in the Fun Stuff – My Diet Can Beat Up Your Diet

Enemy of Debt – The Worst Day of My Entire Life

Financially Consumed – Made in America – Shop Local

Prairie Eco-Thrifter – How to Be  a Frugal Shopper

Money Cone – A curious thing happened to my credit score when I took on some debt

Cash Flow Mantra – Warren Buffett, Intel, and Me

101 Centavos – Why the US Dollar May Rally in 2012

Retire by 40 – 3 Lessons From The Occupy Portland Camp Clearing

Check out the Yakezie Carnival at Bucksome Boomer this week, too.

Beer!

Since I’m a beer snob, I’m gonna throw in a beer pick of the week, too. This week, it’s Oaked Arrgoant Bastard Ale from Stone Brewing. Try it for something different than you’ve ever tasted. Goes great with Tofurky, too!

See ya next week!

I Quit – Fancy Beers When I’m Out

fancy-beersThis post is part of a series where I “quit” something as a bit of a celebration up until I leave my job. Don’t worry – I only give up things that I don’t like or think aren’t worth the money.

This week, I quit expensive drinks at bars. I’m a beer brewer and a general craft beer drinker aka beer snob. I was legit upset when I couldn’t get anything better than Miller Lite at the Financial Bloggers Conference (we need to work on this, Phil!) J Money couldn’t even get his Blue Moon on!

Luckily, New Haven has pretty decent happy hours. Recently, I was at a bar that offers pretty standard beers (like Guinness, Harp, Sam Adams, etc.) for $6 a pint! Ouch! But then I noticed I could get a Heineken for $3, and I picked that instead. Hmm. This got me thinking.

Of course, the real kicker is that buying a good beer at the liquor store costs about $1-2 a bottle (and $3 a bottle will get you something really nice).  So, I thought, “why not just drink cheap beer at bars and save the expensive stuff for at home?!” Obviously, when I’m sampling beers (like I will be in Vermont this weekend), this plan isn’t going to work. But if it’s a choice of just any old beer, I’m going to give this a shot and see how it works out, but it definitely sounds like a money saver to me. Anything thing I can do to get funds into my $10k escape fund would be amazing!

Check back next week when I quit something else (that isn’t my job – yet). Happy iPhone 4s Friday, everyone!

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A Little Inspiration for Your Journey

Now that I’ve made the announcement of where I’m heading from here, it’s going to take some serious work to make it happen. Since it seems so far off, I’m not always the most motivated to make things happen today.

I think the best source is from others who have already done it. There are some great posts out there from others who will not only tell you how they got where they are today, but will also tell you why what they’ve done is so awesome and worthwhile.

Travel

29 life lessons learned in traveling the world for 8 years straight

The 10 Coolest “Offices” I’ve Ever Had

 Why You Should Quit Your Job and Travel Around the World

 

MOVE from Rick Mereki on Vimeo.

Business/Entrepreneurship/JustPlainAwesomeStoryandWriting:

How to Hit Rock Bottom and Come Back a Business Owner

Others that have quit their jobs (and gone on to tell how awesome it is):

Caleb Wojcik @ Pocket Changed – I Quit My Job

Sean Ogle @ Location 180 – My Last Day

Jenny Blake @ Life After College – I’m A Free Agent

J Money @ Budgets Are Sexy – The 6 Month Anniversary of My Awesome Termination

Tyler Tervooren @ Advanced Riskology – Take This Job and Shove It

General Motivation:

From Zen Habits – Top 20 Motivation Hacks and Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway

 

Just for living life (and I cry almost every time):

Not going to lie, I plan to check into this site A LOT and whenever I need it. I hope it gives you some motivation to reach your goals, too.

26 Things You Should Know About Me Before Reading Anything Else I Write

26-things-you-should-know-about-meI’ve always done my best to make this blog personal. After all, pretty much all the stories and advice on Money Spruce are from my own experiences. But I’m not sure anyone can really say they “know” me just from reading my posts. So today, I figured I’d take it to the next level. I got this idea from Corbett’s post (and enjoyed reading Sarah’s version, too) and I was inspired to share more about myself that you might not know. I’m pretty sure I haven’t mentioned most of this stuff before, so I hope this gives you a little more background on who Jeffrey Bailey Trull really is.

1. I was a child model. I have only one real claim to fame, and that’s being on the toy box for a Baby Sinclair Puppet! I usually like to surprise people with this one in person (I still have the toy box), but I guess the secret’s out now.

2. I got barred from AOL as a kid. This was a fun one. I typed a message in some wacky code, pretending it was a virus, and sent it to a friend. AOL got wind of this and shut off my account, despite my telephone explanation that what I sent was a fake. When you’re 13 and the internet is just catching on in the late 90s, this is devastation.

3. I started working when I was 14. I held a job every summer since while I was a student and worked throughout college, too.

4. But I’ve never had a job I’ve loved. Just about any job I’ve held was one that I’ve looked forward to the end. In my head, I literally still cannot understand or picture how anyone can enjoy having a job. It doesn’t compute.

5. I’m an introvert. Some people that I’ve told this to don’t believe me. But I sometimes have a hard time with big crowds at social events. I definitely prefer smaller groups.

6. But I would consider myself a decent public speaker. Maybe it’s because I’m good at it that it gives me confidence. As long as I know my material, speaking in front of crowds isn’t a problem for me.

7. I attended catholic high school. I was never very religious and going to catholic school solidified that even moreso. But I actually loved my high school apart from the religion aspect.

8. I transferred college after just one semester. I started out at Babson College in 2004, but quickly decided it wasn’t for me. By January 2005, I had transferred out and was off to a new school. I was proud of my decision to leave because I was unhappy. A lot of people were afraid to do the same.

9. I was paid to go to graduate school. Full scholarship. $22k salary plus benefits a year. It was a sweet deal.

10. Yet I’m not doing anything even remotely related to my engineering degree currently. I’m not sure that I ever will, and I’m mostly okay with that. I don’t really regret going to college for what I did, either (mostly because I have almost no debt from it).

11. I’m by no means perfect when it comes to handling my finances. I still spend on things that I shouldn’t. I definitely don’t always track my spending properly. I don’t always know what I’m doing when it comes to handling my money, but I’m committed to learning and figuring it out as I go.

12. I take financial losses hard. I haven’t encountered any major financial disasters, emergencies, or thefts yet, but I’m really scared for when it happens and how I’ll handle it. I have an emergency fund, but I still hate the unpredictability of what could (and inevitably will) happen.

13. I have a hard time breaking rules. Perhaps it’s my analytical, engineering mind, but I’m almost always following the rules and instructions. This is great for building IKEA furniture, but an awful way to live life. I’ve been inspired to change and I’m definitely working on this.

14. I’m super forgetful, especially when I’m trying hard to remember something. I feel like I walk out the door just about every day then walk back in because I’ve forgotten something.

15. I started another blog right before this one. I quit after about a month after running out of material, and I decided to pursue this genre instead.

16. I know I will succeed at making a living without a job. I haven’t figured out all the details yet, but I’m learning more and more all the time.

17. But I have no idea where I’ll be and what I’ll be doing a year from now. That’s been the story of most of my adult life so far. It’s a little scary, but it definitely keeps things interesting.

18. My family is generally very supportive of what I do. This helps a ton in terms of achieving what I really want and not letting others tear me down.

19. And I’m still prepared for those who don’t get it. I’ve heard it all before, since I was a kid, on a variety of things that I “can’t” do. But none of this can stop me anymore.

20. I’m a beer brewer. Drinking great beer is probably one of my favorite hobbies, so I decided to start brewing it, too. If you ever want people to think you’re super-cool, I recommend making your own beer, too.

21. I almost exclusively read nonfiction. I don’t know what it is, but fiction usually just doesn’t do it for me. I think it’s something to do with knowing that a story is a about real people and real things.

22. I love karaoke, even though I’m an awful singer. That’s the whole fun of it, right? I’ll sing a wide range of classic 80s rock (my favorite: “Wanted Dead or Alive” by Bon Jovi)

23. I’ve never balanced a checkbook. This is something that’s definitely not on my bucket list. Is it even still necessary? I’m not even sure what the purpose of doing it is. Luckily I hardly every pay by check.

24. I’ve been vegetarian/pescaterian for 7 years (and counting). I started on a whim and stuck with it because I like it. Most people are curious for my reasons, so here they are (most important first): the environment, health, and animal cruelty. I can see myself eating meat again someday but with some stipulations.

25. I’m a fan of musicals. Probably not the manliest thing, but I love Rent and Wicked, among others. My goal this year is to get into NYC and see 1-2 more shows.

26. I like to debate and often play devil’s advocate. It’s nothing personal, I just like a friendly argument.

So there it is. Surprised? Most of these things have nothing to do with personal finance or money, but I like to think that a large part of everyone’s lives don’t either. If you’d like to hear more you can subscribe, friend me on facebook, or reach out by email. This was actually a lot of fun to create, and I definitely encourage you to do the same! If you do, feel free to post your link in the comments.

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Seven Links and the Best of Money Spruce

I’m off on a 2 week vaca, so enjoy these classic posts while I’m off enjoying some time away from my computer :)

Most Beautiful Post

This was the toughest to choose, since I don’t use think of my posts as “beautiful.” I’m going to go back in the time machine and choose this post on personal investments. I really believe in the importance of taking time and spending money if it improves my life now.

Most Popular Post

My post on cutting down your iPhone bill has been the most popular, in terms of page views at least.

Most Controversial Post

I think my post on why credit cards will always cost more was the one that drew some strong disagreement. But I still stand by my opinion, and I think there are studies to back up my argument, too.

Most Helpful Post

My post on finding ways to learn money-making skills online for free has a lot of great resources for doing just that.

A Post with Surprising Success

My post about what to do if you can’t find the job you want (especially after college) got a good amount of attention.

A Post I Feel Didn’t Get the Attention it Deserved

I really liked this post I wrote about renting instead of buying. It was pretty early in the days of Money Spruce, so it wasn’t noticed by too many people.

The Post I’m Most Proud Of

I’d say one of my most recent posts about how I’m going to leave my job and do freelance work while being location independent. I’m really excited to do this, and I feel truly committed now that I’ve made up my mind and put it out there.

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